Hi and thanks for the reply,I knew I did a terrible job of explaining what I need 
There are 2 tables in the db, table 1 and table 2 are linked via a unique record id. For example, (this is not the real data):
Joe's personal info is in table 1 and in table 2 contains all his favorite colors, Red, White and Blue in 3 individual records.
Spooky also in table 1 has entered Green, Yellow, Black and Brown for his colors in 4 individual records.
Now, Spooky wants to change/add/delete a color, I need to list his 4 records to be updated.
If Joe wants to change his colors, I need to list 3 records this time.
I hope this is clear 
Joe