Katherine,I can only tell you what my experience has been. I'm a very long-time user of FP (since 1996) and have used it both ways. I have managed a FP site at two of my client's locations, utilizing a DSL line and 56k connection, as well as my own sites from home using a 56k connection. When I publish from either client's location I still get cut-offs, stalls and crashed extensions. I had the same thing from my home with 3 different hosts, and two different ISPs, and both NT and Linux/Apache. The only time my problems went away was when I was working live off the server.
Yes, it's a little slower to wait for the server to update each time you save a change, but it's not that bad, and far better than having to start and stop the publish process over and over and still not get the damned thing uploaded.
The endless posts on this board over several years from users who experience the same problems again and again and again when publishing tells me I'm not alone. The evidence is overwhleming judging by the posts here: Extensions are easily crashed by problems with the Publish process, and users are frustrated repeatedly. Look at the posts!
And, Gil, I disagree with your assertion that users experience a slower connection with my site when I'm editing off the live server. When I am "on" the server editing, and I go to my dial-up and log on to my site, the process is exactly the same as any other user. The server has no idea it's "me" any different from any other user. Yes, the IP address is captured on the log files, but the server does not interpret that info in a way that impacts the connection or browsing speed. I can't speak for database speeds, because I don't have database-intensive sites. The fact that I am "on" the server has no bearing on the servers reaction to my log-on through the internet.
Yes, I probably have played fast and loose with the backup situation, and one day it will probbaly bite me in the butt, but I make a point not to host with a host who does not backup. I pay for it, so I expect it to do what it's supposed to do, and so far so good. I've never lost a single sentence on any of my sites in 6 years.
All I can do is speak for my own experience over a long period of time under many different circumstances and pass my experiences on to users who complain about the exact same things I went through, and offer my own solutions as I experience them.
All I say is just try it, I think you will have far fewer problems. If not, then what can I say! :-)
Phil
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