exactly...here is a simple one i did in an asp course i just took ..you need two files..first to display the name so they can select one:
<!--#Include virtual="adovbs.inc"-->
<%
Dim Conn, RS
Set Conn=Server.CreateObject("ADODB.Connection")
Set RS=Server.CreateObject("ADODB.Recordset")
Conn.Open
RS.Open "contact",Conn,adOpenkeyset,adLockoptimistic,adCmdTable
%>
<html><head><title>Delete From My Database</title></head>
<body>
<form method="post" action="deleteprocess.asp">
<select name="deleteit">
<%
Do Until RS.EOF%>
<option
value="<%=RS.Fields("contact_id")%>"><%=RS.Fields("lname")%></option>
<%RS.MoveNext
Loop%>
</select>
<input type="submit" name="delete" value="Delete Name">
</form>
<%
RS.close
Set RS=Nothing
Conn.close
Set Conn=Nothing
%>
</body></html>
and the second file to do the deletion based upon their selection
<!--#Include virtual="adovbs.inc"-->
<%
Dim Conn,id,numaffected,statement
id=Request.Form("deleteit")
Set Conn=Server.CreateObject("ADODB.Connection")
Conn.Open
statement="DELETE FROM contact WHERE contact_id=" & id
Conn.Execute statement,numaffected,adCmdText
Conn.close
Set Conn=Nothing
%>
not real sophisticated but it will give you an idea