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Dompros -> RE: China Adviser wrap-up (5/6/2002 15:30:21)
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Glad to hear from you all, Swirl, Erin and Paula, Your points are respected, just as mine should be, but apparently are not! The very first sentence of the post that I believe you are referring to, “You see, every forum has self proclaimed experts and gurus”, would eliminate you ladies, as subjects, of the observation… Perhaps you are indignant on behalf of someone else? Why would a generalized observation about forums in general be considered rude, since I’ve said nothing about any individual member or Moderator? Why any of you are hostile, I can’t really understand… It seems that, for any of you to be angry, you must have put yourselves into the picture, and think that the post is about you or your friends! I never make personal remarks towards a person, unless they are derogatory towards me, and mine are always in self-defense. I assure, the 3 of you that none of you were in mind when I posted! Swirl, I really can’t imagine, that you would consider quitting something that you love and are proud of accomplishing, because of the opinions of a stranger on the other side of the planet? If anyone, gives me suggestions or ideas that will bring about changes in me or with that things that I’m doing with my job, I expect to be able to discuss it with them, And why not? Why is then, that if suggestion are given in a forum, it’s rude to reply, and ask for the reason why, to ask for a foundation for their beliefs, and to expect answers? Why is it that, if one does not agree, they must “Shut up and go away”? Who made up these rules? I don’t see them posted? I want to understand why, it was said, I want to know why you believe in that, I want to understand what is being done and for what reason! I’m here to learn something, for crimminy sakes! Why is it that, I have said nothing about any of you, or any moderator, or any member, you are making personal remarks toward me? Erin, is that really true?… that you decline to comment out of fear of the response? Do any of you really want to be a person that would deny another, to be able to think, to express themselves, to have ideas and opinions, simply because their thoughts don’t agree with yours? I’ve observer various forums for about 4 years and I stand by my views. that what I stated in my post does occur. There is no one in this forum that has been personally accused of anything! If any of you think that it is you, then you have put it upon yourselves… I would suggest that we all try to interact in a mature and peaceful environment. Refrain from the personal derogatory barbs. I can’t imagine that anyone in this forum or anywhere else for that matter is so pure that they are above the observations of others. Regards, Robert "Lung Tik Chuan Ren" The sign of the Dragon
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