Thanks Dabney7,That sounds like something I'd try in the future.
For now I am happy to announce that Spooky got me going in the right direction last night and it now works!
I have a disk based web and I was only publishing my site using file/publish. This method published the namedfile.mdb but did not actually place it in the fpdb file. Also the verification of the data base connection, while verified on my hard drive copy lost the verification when published in this manner.
To solve the problem Spooky suggested: ( and please correct me if I am wrong)
publish by doing it live - i.e.
connect to internet
open frontpage
then file/open web/select folder/select website/ok
now you are in a front page version of your site BUT LIVE
now do file/import/yournameddatabasefile.mdb
make sure it goes into the fpdb file in the root diretory. As a precaution I also made sure a copy went into the subweb fpdb directory where the form collecting page resides.
Then go into Tools/websettings/database/
and make sure the data base is verified.
Also there is a place on the database tab for Advance- I selected it and put the server info for the dsn in the name box and the naming convention assigned by the server in the value box.
AND NOW EVERYTHING WORKS! ITS A MIRACLE!
I have to say that this information is no where to be found in the help menu, my web server set up instructions,Front Page bible, or the 2 other books I have on Front Page or at the microsoft Q&A.
Many thanks to Spooky!